Fix various warnings and deprecations (#23641)

* Migrate to fastapi lifespan for startup events

The `on_event` style decorator is deprecated

https://fastapi.tiangolo.com/advanced/events/

* Migrate to pydantic TypeAdapter

https://pydantic.dev/docs/validation/2.12/get-started/migration/#introduction-of-typeadapter

* Replace pytz with native tz-aware objects and zoneinfo library

Supported from Python 3.9, see https://peps.python.org/pep-0615/. Also
https://blog.ganssle.io/articles/2019/11/utcnow.html.

Also provide tzdata as new dependency to supplement systems without local
tzdata information.

* Provide lookup for normalized timezone names

This provides a helper to look up the correct timezone name independent
of the casing of the given timezone name.

* Test timezone naming normalization and error handling

frigate/api/defs/query/review_query_parameters.py

@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ class ReviewSummaryQueryParams(BaseModel):
     cameras: str = "all"
     labels: str = "all"
     zones: str = "all"
-    timezone: str = "utc"
+    timezone: str = "UTC"
 
 
 class ReviewActivityMotionQueryParams(BaseModel):